Day 36
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    My father’s family, meanwhile, ________(遍布)Chicago’s broader South Side and include________(一堆姑婆和三代表亲), plus a few________(游散的远亲)whose blood connection remain________(模糊不清). We________(和所有人都有来往).
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    ________(卷发)little man
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    ________(酷炫时髦)
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    They wore ________(喇叭裤)and________(高领毛衣).
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    My grandfather was ________(相处起来没那么好玩).
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    with ________(晚间新闻正在播报)on the television nearby
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    He was galled by the day’s headlines: gall - 胆汁 (名词);VEX (动词) 
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    ________(让全世界的黑人都背上恶名)
Day 37
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    ________(经营得很好)a thriving Bible bookstore
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    In her ________(下班时间)
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    meekness: 温和 
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    his ________(接二连三的抱怨)
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    There was something about my grandmother’s silence and passivity in her relationship with Dandy that ________(让我不爽).
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    I was the only one in the family to ________(RETORT ON / 顶嘴)Dandy when he yelled.
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    His stubbornness was something I recognized, something I’d inherited myself, though I hoped in a less ________(伤人感情的)form.
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    There was also a softness in Dandy, which I ________(只在不经意的一瞥中见过).
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    ________(聊天的时候不经意说了一个复杂的词)
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    But then something would ________(激怒他)and he’d start snarling again.
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    crankily: 任性的/暴躁的 
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    A ________(机智灵敏的)and intelligent kid
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    He’d been ________(CHRISTENED/起外号叫)“the Professor” and________(一早设定了将来有一天上大学的目标).
Day 38
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    He also ________(成年/达到法定年龄)during the Great Depression.
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    ________(他能做的选择永远都不会变多).
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    ________(在50年间).
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    ________(很难得到工作).
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    ________(在保龄球馆摆放瓶子)and________(做一些杂务的零活)
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    Gradually, he ________(降低了期望),________(放弃了上大学的梦想), thinking he’d________(培训做某事)become an electrician instead. But this, too, was quickly________(挫败).
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    jitney: 小型公共汽车 
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    able-bodied: 身强力壮的 
Day 39
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    It pained them, I know, to be ________(扔在一边), to be________(困在一份以自己的能力绰绰有余的岗位上), to watch white people________(超过他们)at work, sometimes training new employees they knew might one day become their bosses
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    And it ________(在他们每个人心中都滋生[怨恨])at least a basic level of resentment and mistrust: You never quite knew what other folks saw you to be.
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    He then went on to ________(走过了三十年)as a postal worker before retiring with a pension that helped allow him all that time to yell at the boo-boos on TV from the comfort of his recliner.
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    But still, Dandy would remain unable to see his children’s accomplishments as ________(作为他[自身梦想]的一种延伸). As we saw every Sunday arriving at Parkway Gardens for dinner, my grandfather lived with the________(他自己那破灭了的梦想留下的苦涩残渣).
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    part of the ________(亲缘关系疏远的人群)that often turned up when my parents drove over for a visit
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    As the adults drank coffee and laughed in the kitchen, ________(将出现同步的场景)as Craig and I joined whatever________(一群孩子)came with those adults.
Day 40
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    I’d jump double Dutch or try to ________(融入到任何进行中的玩笑话中).
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    ________(在某一时刻), one of the girls, a second, third, or fourth cousin of mine,________(斜眼看我)and said, just________(有点激动), “________(为什么)you talk like a white girl?”
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    anthill: 蚁冢 
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    The question was ________(尖刻).
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    But I knew ________(她指的是什么).
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    I did speak different ________(FROM)some of my relatives.
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    Our parents had ________(灌输给我们)the importance of using proper________(措辞), of saying “going” instead of “goin” and “isn’t” instead of “ain’t”. We were taught to________(完成)our words.
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    They bought us a dictionary and a full Encyclopedia Britannica set, which ________(放在)a shelf in the stairwell to our department, its titles________(蚀刻)in gold.
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    Dandy, too, ________(是一个影响因子), meticulously correcting our grammar or________(劝告)us to________(清晰地发音)our words when we went over for dinner.
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    We were expected not just to be smart but to own our smartness – to ________(拥有)it with pride – and this________(反映在)how we speak.
Day 41
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    white middle-class Kansans: 堪萨斯州人 /ˈkænzəs/ 
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    I’d see this confusion ________(发生 UNFOLD)on the national stage among whites and blacks alike.
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    I passed the rest of that day trying to say less to my cousin, feeling ________(扫兴)by her hostility, but also wanting her to________(认为我是一个真诚的人)– not trying to________(炫耀)some advantage.
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    my parents’ laughter ________([笑声]轻松响亮)over the yard.
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    I watched my brother ________(在..过程中)a sweaty game with a group of boys on the adjacent street corner.
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    I look back on the discomfort of that moment now and recognize the more universal challenge of ________(矫正)who you are with where you come from and where you want to go.